Meditations on Becoming More Deliberate in Daily Life

Meditations on Becoming More Deliberate in Daily LifeWe've all heard the phrase, "My, how time flies by!". What we often mean by that is that we've accomplished very little for the time that has gone by. One of the big reasons we seem to lose time is because we're not paying attention to what we want to accomplish. One of the ways to do that, is to use meditation.  Meditation is a proven technique for leading a more intentional life.  Try some of these ideas to become more deliberate in your daily life.

Meditating On Slowing Down

  1. Create a peaceful setting. You can create a serene meditation space wherever you live. Pick a corner in your bedroom or living room. Clear away clutter and put down a cushion or chair. Light a candle or burn incense.<--break->
  2. Relax your body. Take deep breaths. Scan your body from head to foot. Sit up straight. Lower your shoulders and loosen any tension spots. Close your eyes or hold them slightly open.
  3. Quiet your mind. Observe your thoughts without pursuing them. Gradually turn your attention to your breath. Count your breaths if it helps you settle down.
  4. Streamline your schedule. Bring your new sense of ease into your daily routine. Pare down your to do list. Give your full attention to one activity at a time.

 Meditating On Setting Specific Goals

  1.  Define a meaningful life. Consider what a meaningful life means to you. Think about what achievements bring you the greatest satisfaction. Think about what you want your life to look like at the end of the next 90 days, 6 months, 1 year, 5 years or more. Provide a target for you mind to focus on so it will help you to acheive the desired results.
  2. Target priority areas. Identify what you feel most passionate about. You may want to spend more time with your family or advance your career. Maybe you want to go back to school or take up a new hobby. One of the big things that prevents us from accomplishing our goals is a lack of focus. We're trying to do too much. Choose your priorities and focus on them.
  3. Visualize where you want to go. Picture what you want your life to be like in a year or five years from now. Start setting short term goals that will make your new path a reality. Your mind operates on pictures so make it easy for your mind to work.
  4. Be flexible. Life is full of surprises. Be prepared for obstacles and detours. View them as opportunities for learning and growth.

 

Meditating On Repetition

  1.  Consider the value of repetition. Progress usually requires persistence. Make a commitment to being diligent and consistent. Look forward to how good you’ll feel when the behaviors you desire become automatic. It's been said that repetition is the mother of skill. Focus on getting the fundamentals down by practicing them.
  2. Identify new habits you want to adopt. Form tendencies that are good for you. If you’ve been watching television to relax after work, come up with a list of alternatives like taking a walk or playing ball with your kids.  Habits will make you or break you.  You can choose what habits to acquire, choose them well.
  3. Make an action plan. Figure out how to implement your resolutions. Sometimes it helps to take it one day at a time and give yourself rewards to reinforce your motivation. Writing out your plans will clarify them in your mind. You can also post your resolutions somewhere as a reminder to stick to them.

 

Meditating On Evaluation

  1. Review your progress. Once you start living more deliberately, keep track of your results. Use your meditation time to gauge how things are going and where you want to improve.
  2. Reflect on your daily activities. Look at the situations where you succeed in becoming more deliberate and the times when you falter. Try to find the triggers that help to keep you on course.
  3. Listen to feedback from others. Other people can give us valuable insights into our own conduct. Use praise, criticism and reactions from others as resources to help you develop.
  4. Refine your resolutions. Becoming more deliberate is a lifelong process. Schedule ongoing reviews to make mid course corrections and to stay up to date with your changing needs.

If you feel like you’re just drifting through life, take control by becoming more intentional. Meditations that train you to become more deliberate will help you identify your personal priorities and get the results you want.

 

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